Not just over any girl

 "Seriously dude, you are willing to go that far just because of a girl. Are you stupid? Who does that in today's world? You are being naive. Move on, you will get much better than her"

Whenever I listen to this supposition I really get upset. Not only because they are wrong, but they're actually far away from the truth. And while saying this, they form a conjecture about you and your actions. It's like a taboo for them, that we don't have to do that stuff just for a girl. But I don't understand why they have to do that? Just because they think it's just a girl, like many others in this world. I wonder how people even decide she isn't worth any of your efforts. 

Part - 1

I believe, growing up as a girl in today's world is itself like losing illusion of this perfect world. Standing tall at times on the cusp of every breakdown, acting valiant even in her low times and most importantly putting all these facades together just to show that she is okay. And despite all the troubles, she never forgets to show her care and love. She remains there for you whether the situation is good or bad. I believe a girl holds more pain, more love inside her than we can ever imagine. Yes, many times she will be confused about life, about you because she has a lot going through her mind. It doesn't mean she is forgetting about you. You wouldn't know, but deep down she always try her best to be the one you asked for. Even after this, how can anyone say she isn't worth the effort? Instead of understanding her, supporting her, you choose to leave her. Suddenly she becomes a baggage to you and you decide to lay that down.

Part - 2

It's not because of any girl - As there are many things attached to it but normally people wouldn't notice that. Let me say this as what I think it should be, I don't know about being right or wrong. But this is what I feel.

She is family. Okay.

I love her so much that I consider her my family. So yes, I am willing to go that far for her because she is family. Just like anyone would do that for their family. Also, it’s about the connection I feel when I am with her. The feeling I get and I know it's real. So if I strongly believe this is real, then why should I put a stop to my efforts?

I love her unconditionally like parents do to me. It's not easy, neither it should be. There shouldn't be any question of whom do I love more, my parents or her? Why? Let me ask you then, do our parents compete with each other or love one child more than other? I don't think so. If they aren't doing it then why should I? After all, I believe she is family. I just want to say that I love both of them and I am fully aware of my responsibility as a son and as a lover too.

I love her. Okay.

You can get much better than her - I practically laugh at this point. Seriously am I here for shopping? She is already the best and I already feel much better and more than anyone in this world would know about this, is me. Because I feel it.  Not you, not you and not anyone else. 

What I feel is true. Okay.

I believe in all of these and many more things. That’s why I don't like when people just say dude, just over a girl? Yes, she is worth lot more than my efforts ever will be. 

She should not be just any girl for you. She should be the one for you.