Relationship:
This is something which I always wanted to write . So here it is :
We should never give up on someone for whom we have done so much because if we give up then all our efforts would be pointless. Because at the end what we choose, matters.
I read this somewhere,
"try one more time,before giving up"
And it is true.If we can follow this ,then giving up won't be a choice for anybody. And if you truly love someone ,you will always find a way to make things work,because that's what people do in their marriages specially.
Don't they?
I have a story about one particular married couple & I would to like share it here.
....
They used to love each other very deeply and at the same time ,they fought a lot also. But whenever they were asked,if they fight so much ,why don't they just leave each other? Is it because the society would think bad or is it because both families will get disturbed? I thought maybe one of them would be their answer. But I was shocked when both husband and wife said the same thing in their answer & it was completely adorable.
They said,
"Indeed we both have very much differences in our opinions,therefore we fight a lot more than any couple,possibly.
But while fighting we never forget that how much we love each other.We know difference in opinions can lead to very stressful life,but after every fight, we never hold anything inside. We always tell each other about what we feel and that type of communication easily melt down our differences in opinions. We usually find a way to make things work,you name it anything compromise or adjustments or most important making your partner happy.
Because we both know this very well
"Fighting is temporary,but love is eternal.We may forget after few days or few months,
on which topic we had our fight,but it is impossible to forget the one we love.
So why should we let temporary things ruin our love which cannot be forgotten."
Why should we give up the love which is beautiful in order to just keep our opinion?
Guys,its just a perspective,your personal point of view which can be changed or agreed to, but its not nearly worth to give up your love.
And I was completely shocked after hearing all of this but most importantly happy. Happy,because I found solace in their love, how they value love above all. They knew that in life,what they need is undying love for each other and that love is keeping them together from past 30 years.
So my question is the same:
Is it worth giving up or trying again & again to achieve something beautiful more than anything?
You may not see it right now,how it will turn,but if you nurture with love (Like every parents do to their child),something beautiful will come up eventually and you will have your view :)
This is something which I always wanted to write . So here it is :
We should never give up on someone for whom we have done so much because if we give up then all our efforts would be pointless. Because at the end what we choose, matters.
I read this somewhere,
"try one more time,before giving up"
And it is true.If we can follow this ,then giving up won't be a choice for anybody. And if you truly love someone ,you will always find a way to make things work,because that's what people do in their marriages specially.
Don't they?
I have a story about one particular married couple & I would to like share it here.
....
They used to love each other very deeply and at the same time ,they fought a lot also. But whenever they were asked,if they fight so much ,why don't they just leave each other? Is it because the society would think bad or is it because both families will get disturbed? I thought maybe one of them would be their answer. But I was shocked when both husband and wife said the same thing in their answer & it was completely adorable.
They said,
"Indeed we both have very much differences in our opinions,therefore we fight a lot more than any couple,possibly.
But while fighting we never forget that how much we love each other.We know difference in opinions can lead to very stressful life,but after every fight, we never hold anything inside. We always tell each other about what we feel and that type of communication easily melt down our differences in opinions. We usually find a way to make things work,you name it anything compromise or adjustments or most important making your partner happy.
Because we both know this very well
"Fighting is temporary,but love is eternal.We may forget after few days or few months,
on which topic we had our fight,but it is impossible to forget the one we love.
So why should we let temporary things ruin our love which cannot be forgotten."
Why should we give up the love which is beautiful in order to just keep our opinion?
Guys,its just a perspective,your personal point of view which can be changed or agreed to, but its not nearly worth to give up your love.
And I was completely shocked after hearing all of this but most importantly happy. Happy,because I found solace in their love, how they value love above all. They knew that in life,what they need is undying love for each other and that love is keeping them together from past 30 years.
So my question is the same:
Is it worth giving up or trying again & again to achieve something beautiful more than anything?
You may not see it right now,how it will turn,but if you nurture with love (Like every parents do to their child),something beautiful will come up eventually and you will have your view :)
